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10/18/2020

Not a lot happened these last few weeks. I’ve been busy with school and able to focus on different things to mess around with. This week wasn’t a good week. I haven’t been feeling good and my labs show it. I’ve been super tired too. I’m a little better now, even if I was on antibiotics for a week. BUT! I didn’t have to go to the hospital! So that’s a big plus. They increased a few of my medications, so that is also contributing to my…. Unwellness. I did get a new blood pressure monitor that makes it very simple to take it on my own. It’s super helpful, when I remember to do it.

I baked a lot last week. I really enjoy baking, I find it fun, challenging, and…..Boredom relieving. That being said, I made Spooky Cupcakes!! I made them out of red velvet cake and I was super careful with decorations. I used fondant to make a spider, cobweb(?), and a fly trapped in the cobweb. All homemade by yours truly. (And Potato Potato)

I’m super excited for Halloween! Even with the Covid restrictions. Now that I’m old enough this year I get to watch a whole plethora worth of new (For me) scary/spooky movies. We usually make our own costumes too, so even if we aren’t leaving the house we’re gonna be dressed up. I’m not sure what mine is gonna be yet, we’ll get there.

I was able to go to a Church Youth activity….Corn Mazes! My first time in weeks leaving for a youth activity. It was super interesting, I went to my first “Haunted” one. It was super funny listening and watching everyone scream, I didn’t scream (but that doesn’t matter). I was still spooked. I had a great time hanging out with my brother and other kids around my age, masks and all. yay. covid.

This week was also the end of term one for school, woo. I did good for the most part (?????) and I decided that 8th grade is hard. Especially when for my entire 7th grade year I was Hospital-homeschooled and got easy A’s because I already knew the material! I did okay, this term at least. I passed. Next term hopefully will be better. I did amazing in Health though, soooooooooo……….

Kidney Update

SO! in the last month my kidney labs have gotten really………………mean/grumpy/cranky (????) The results have increased to a point where they were starting to talk about Dialysis. I REEEEEAAAAALLLLLLLLLLY don’t like that idea. I don’t like thinking that I’m so close to that part. I really hope I can get my Transplant surgery( Even if I don’t like surgery) before Dialysis. I have Kidney clinic next week, so we’re gonna hear from the doctors if I have time to spare until Dialysis. As far as we know I am actively on the list waiting for a new kidney, with no live donors. Which is Okay! It’s just really intimidating.

Potato Potato Corner

Potato Potato Quote: “Just because you grow underground doesn’t mean your not beautiful. Just like a potato , you can pick yourself up and wash off that dirt to get a new start.”

Potato Potato Pun: “Which side dish does Dr. Frankenstein bring to Thanksgiving dinner?
Monster mash potatoes.”

~Amelia

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October 18, 2020
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Alive in a Whirlwind…

I can’t believe that as I sit here, there are only 13 days left until Halloween! October is more than half over and over here has been crazy.

Amelia has been doing ok, but going downhill. We can see it even if she can’t. Her appetite has gotten to the point where we are begging her to eat something so that she can be healthy, but she struggles. We keep trying different things hoping that something will taste good to her. Sometimes we score the home run and she chows down, sometimes it takes a while to finish.

Some of her kidney labs have been all over the place lately. The doctors are trying to figure out the best therapy for her, but we are not near the point of dialysis yet. They plan on talking more about that at clinic on Tuesday the 20th. I really hope that we can avoid dialysis…that was a chore before and will be again.

On another note, they were encouraged last week when her name actually showed up on the list for an available kidney. She was far down, like number 13 on the list, but she was still there, so we keep our fingers crossed. All things will be in the time that they are supposed to.

School has been going well, all of the kids are nearing the end of the term. This term at home has had its ups and downs, but we have most of it finally figured out. We will be on to the next term starting on the 26th.

We have tried to get Amelia out a bit this month, we have gone on some drives and hanging out in the mountains away from everyone. We are still keeping her pretty isolated. She is keeping busy reading and baking. She is becoming a darn good baker. She made cupcakes the other day from scratch, with cream cheese icing, and then spent a lot of time making individual spiders and flies out of fondant. They looked really good. I told her that she will have to be on that show she likes, Nailed It. She could win.

In general, we are just hanging out and waiting for a kidney to show up and for the Covid-Beast to be vanquished. We will make this. We are all continually grateful for all of the prayers and thoughts from all of you out there. We could not do this without your support and the support from Heaven. We will always be grateful for the power of combined faith and the blessings that can be received from it.

Thank you all again.

Still coming to you live, 118 days into this new kidney journey in the year of Corona,

-Justin

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October 18, 2020
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A New Cat!

Over the last week, School has been going good. I’ve enjoyed most of my classes and have been keeping up on my school work. We had parent teacher conferences yesterday and I’m getting really good grades. I am doing great at distance learning I make sure I sign into my classes everyday. So far my best subjects are Health (obviously) , English, and Art (We’ve been doing shading!). I was actually able to get school pictures done this year without having to go to the Hospital right after. ‘Cause last year for both original and retakes, I was sick and hospitalized. They aren’t the best pictures. I’m excited to see how they turn out (Hopefully they look good (( Crossing my fingers))(((and knocking on wood, just to be sure))))

It’s also confirmed that I’ll be playing the trumpet this year for band! My sister is helping me, so I have a personal, first hand helper when I’m struggling.

I was also able to make a Pumpkin spice roll!! It turned out really good and I was super proud of it. (Potato Potato helped) It tasted great and I’m happy it worked. It’s not something I’ve ever made before, It was new for me. Ta-da!

We got a new Catt!!!! His name is Dr. Bones and he’s super sweet. He’s only a kitten ( 6 months) and he gets along well with Captain. He really likes playing with pipe cleaners and feathers. We have, so far, named all our animals have Pirate names. So our dogs are Timbers (short for Shiver me Timbers (( I don’t really remember him though, soooo))((( We don’t have him anymore, he was at out first house)))), Compass, and Calypso and our cats are Captain, Thunder (RIP), Tortuga, and now Bones.

This week I haven’t been feeling great. As in I’m, just more tired and worn out. But it’s nice be on distance learning so I could get off of school early ( Or as soon as I finished my homework) We (finally) got a call from Kidney Clinic today saying that I should be actively on the Unos’ donation List. (Yay!) I was technically approved before (Which is good) but they had to wait for all the bloodwork and tests to go through (Which they did today). So this means, if a kidney shows up they can call us, so I can receive it. HOWEVER that being said, my blood type is kinda hard to match with some of the other characteristics of my blood/DNA, so they have to double check me with their special chart. TRANSLATION, This means I might have to wait a while longer for a kidney (Sadly). But when I get one it will be perfect for me. They said it might takes several months before they find one. I just hope that they’ll find one before I need to go on Dialysis.

I don’t like the idea of another transplant/Surgery , but I’m willing to go through with it if it means I’ll feel better. I really don’t like the idea of Dialysis and I really want them to find a kidney soon. In short, Its alot to have (But that’s okay). I can do it.

Gimli, the perpetually worried cat - Imgur
Lotta Emotion

Potato Potato Corner:

( In Image one it shows a Embroidery Kit, I’d like to thank Carol for it. I’ve always wanted to try it! so far so good! ((Thank you for the socks too!!)))

Potato Potato pun=What does a British potato say when life is grand?
It’s Mashing!

Potato Potato Quote=” Don’t feel like a beaten batch of mashed Potatoes. You are always Gonna be a Wonderfully Tall Potato! And I love you”

~Amelia

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September 23, 2020
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September is almost over!

Well Hello there! It has been a little bit since my last post, not too much is going on in the kidney world, but life is a bit crazy.

Since August, everyone has gone back to school! Amelia is at home, doing all of her classes online and doing really well. Last night we had virtual parent teacher conferences and she is doing great! This Covid mess has one bright spot, and that is the ability that the teachers have to do online schooling. This is ideal for Amelia becasue she can be in a “normal” class and learn a ton. Home Hospital was fine last year, and got her through the basic classes for 7th grade, but this year she gets art and music, all online. She has gone in a couple of times to pick up things from her teachers, but for the most part she is at home. She did make it for school pictures this year and didn’t have to head up to Primary’s afterwards. Last year, she took her first picture and went to the hospital. That picture wasn’t great as you can imagine, so we did retakes, with the same result. This year she just came home afterwards!

We have been running around like crazy this month and it just seems to slip away like quicksilver. I can’t believe it is already the 23rd of September and it is officially fall, but it is already to week 3 of the NFL season. No, the Broncos are not doing great.

Amelia had clinic (with all of the “covid” crap restrictions) on the 15th and she is doing ok. She has been getting more tired lately and doesn’t feel great, but she still gets up and goes. They finally got all of the i’s dotted and T’s crossed for her to be officilly listed on the transplant list. We thought she was on the list before, but it was all preliminary waiting on OK from the GI docs and the oncology docs. All is good now, and we begin the actual waiting.

Amelia has been keeping herself busy learning needlepoint and continuing to bake. She made a pumpkin roll the other day that just may rival Grandma’s, and that is hard to live up to! We also let her and Leatha get a new cat. She loves the cat as you will see from her post. She is also interested in learning photography. I have let her use my camera for a few things lately and she is doing pretty good with compositions and lighting. I made her the official photographer for Cameron’s Eagle Scout Project last week, and she came home with nearly 900 images. We will have plenty to choose from!

All in all things are going well. We will wait for a kidney call and continue to hope that she doesn’t get any sicker. Brenda and I (and amelia) are continually thankful for all of you who are supporting us. We appreciate your thoughts and prayers, we can’t do this without your support and that from Heaven.

Still coming to you live 93 days into this kidney journey,

-Justin

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September 23, 2020
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I am Official!

Hello Everyone, We had very an eventful week. We found out that I have been approved by the Transplant Team for the region to be placed on the official Transplant list waiting for a kidney. I am a big bundle of emotions because of this announcement; Nervous because it is a HUGE surgery for me, it’s kind of nerve wracking. Relieved because I have been feeling so gross and tired. I know it will really help me feel better, plus it’s a lot better than going on Dialysis. Conflicted because if I get a deceased kidney donor, I’m not really sure how to feel. It was so much easier for me to adjust to a kidney transplant when Carol gave me her kidney. Not knowing where this kidney may come from is interesting to say the least.

This week we had Kidney Clinic. It was very awkward because they wouldn’t let two parents in; my dad being the one left out. Luckily we were able to Skype VideoChat in the room, so that he was able to be included. They had to adjust multiple medications, including a injection, added a new one to help prolong my kidney function, and then they just increased one of my normal pills. My labs this week were okay considering everything that’s going on. But we finally got my blood pressure under control! PLUS I’m not dehydrated!!!!!!!!! The only thing they needed me to do before going officially on the kidney list, was get a EchoCardiogram. Which I did today. Rating score: 0/10 would not recommend. (The People doing it were very nice, it was just the exam (( Glad the room was dark.)))

This weekend when my older siblings went camping, I stayed home and made monster pillows with my little brother! We had lots of fun, playing movies, eating oven s’mores, and sewing! Special thank you to our Church Family for thinking of us and sending loads of sunshine! It’s nice to know that we’re loved and remembered.

Potato Potato Corner This week Potato Potato was able was able to do *cough* help *cough* with two different puzzles! It had lots of fun and got very very confused!

Potato Potato quote “Be a French Fry, Stand tall”

Potato Potato pun “Who is a potato’s favorite author? Edgar Allen Poe-tato“

~Amelia

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August 19, 2020
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feelings

The one about the last pre-transplant class

Today we met with the pharmacist for our last Pre-Transplant class. She gave Amelia a bunch of information, and was really nice to talk directly to Amelia for the appointment. Since Amelia is the one taking all of these, she needs to know!

I really like when the doctors talk to Amelia, not at Brenda and I and hope Amelia gets it. Now, when she was younger, and for the first transplant, Amelia didn’t understand any of this. Now that she is 14, it is great to get her prepared for the future when she will be living with this transplant on her own.

Amelia wants the cat to help….

I wonder how she is processing all of this, learning what Brenda and I have been doing with her for years, and wondering how she is going to handle all of it. Of course we will be there to help, but it is a bit daunting. I took over setting up all of Amelia’s meds years ago when we almost gave her 2 doses and Brenda and I determined that 1 person in charge was a good idea. Amelia helps me now, to load her pill box and keep track of what she is taking every dose.

Hopefully after this appointment, she will continue to be aware of all of the things she has to do. I also hope that there is not a hiccup that will keep her off of the transplant list for another month.

At the end of this appointment, the pharmacist asked Amelia for a bright thought to get her through the rest of the day. That is just fun and it is great that they are involving Amelia so much in this transplant process.

More to come as we know…

Coming to you live 35 days into the new Kidney Journey…

-Justin

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July 22, 2020
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Day 2: Pre-Transplant Classes

Today I had to wake up at 6:45 to get to Primary’s (For day two of Transplant evaluation) by 8:00!!!! Not my usual time to be awake. It seemed that they just kept droning on and on, I still learned a lot! So, as soon as we got home I took one of my usual naps, except this one lasted four hours.

  • Today I learned:
  • My current Kidney might be removed.
  • I may need a “CAT” scan. (editors note: this is a real CT scan and has nothing to do with a feline)
  • I’m glad that I have a good friend in Nevada who I can vent with.
  • I’ll be staying on the same Medications for my kidney.
  • I’ll be having ALOTTTTTTT of doctors appointments for the first three months after the Transplant.
  • I have to get the high school booster shots before I can get a kidney.
  • They’re Vampires
  • EVERYONE asked about if I had a live donor yet.
  • But, like, How do you ask someone that?

~Amelia

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July 17, 2020
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The one about the workups, Day 2

Well we are sitting here in the clinic at Primary Childrens hospital today. This is the day when we get to see the transplant people….that we know. as of 1030, we have seen the coordinator and signed a bunch of papers to get ready for transplant, the child life specialist who just chats and tries to figure out how to get the kids more comfortable in the hospital.

Then we saw the doctor. We have been seeing Dr. Sherbotie since Amelia first got sick 13 years ago. He is still puzzling about Amelia. There is a lot of unknowns about this new transplant and what will happen with it, and they kind of have to wait and see. He is talking about situations where they may have to remove her current transplant, or go on dialysis for a while, and then what immunosuppression that she will be on. He was also talking about consulting with Dr. Afify, the oncologist, to make sure that the immune suppression Amelia will be on works for her new transplant and will help avoid getting PTLD again. He is very optimistic about this second transplant.

Everyone keeps talking about finding Amelia a live donor for this kidney. That is hard for me to ask anyone to donate when they won’t work me up for it. Amelia can have both of my kidneys today if they would do it, but they will not. For now.

So now we have to ask if anyone would be willing to get worked up for a kidney donation. It is interesting what they do now, people can come in and get worked up for Amelia, but if they don’t match then they can still donate to someone else and things get matched up for Amelia. This is similar to what Carol did back for the first transplant, where she donated to Amelia. Carol’s uncle, that she didn’t match, got another persons donation soon afterwards. Now they can do chains of people where there may be 4 or 5 in a line between people. So now I have to post here, if anyone wants to get worked up to be a donor, go to the University of Utah’s page: https://healthcare.utah.edu/transplant/living-donor/

Now we are waiting for the rest of the team to come in. We are waiting for the dietitian, pharmacist and social worker. More to come about those.

Dietician: not much is going to change! She was glad that we have been doing good with eating and drinking for the past 11 years. Amelia will do just fine after transplant.

Next up was the social worker. She needed to know how we were going to handle another transplant and what Amelia could use for support. According to Amelia, it comes down to parents, siblings, and the cat. In reverse order.

Anyway, that was our day at clinic. We are hoping to get her on the transplant list soon, hopefully before she has to do dialysis again.

Still coming to you live, 30 days into the new Kidney Journey

-Justin

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July 17, 2020
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Pre-Transplant Online Video Class

Today was the first day of Pre-Transplant evaluation for the Kidney Transplant process. They went over all the pre-transplant information, during transplant, and aftermath changes. It was a ton of stuff to learn, I’ll need a Remembrall to recall any of it.

So, me stating I’m not exited is a understatement. I’m not looking forward to the whole surgery idea AGAIN. It’s not gonna change all that much of my lifestyle because I’ve been doing the same things (to protect my kidney) since I was 3. Except I found out that my new kidney was going to be on my opposite side from the old one. Almost everything I learned today was stuff I was already familiar with, so that made me feel better. I can’t imagine being completely new at this, and having to learn everything in the span of a few days. It’s probably very difficult to people who are new to the transplant process.

12! TWELVE!!!!! Twelve tubes of blood they (home health) took (Those Vampires) to cover all the tests that they need to do for the transplant evaluation.

A few interesting things I learned today:

  • I’m Not allowed to have pomegranate juice and or Grapefruit juice
  • No energy drinks for me
  • Peritoneal Dialysis is STUPID and not for Me
  • Green tea is not allowed but Herbal Tea is Alright
  • I won’t have to be on all my Medications after the Transplant
  • Anybody can donate if they want to
  • If I get COVID-19 I will not be able to have a transplant for a long time and might need dialysis before i get a transplant (ONLY IF IT HAPPENS)
  • I might not need Dialysis at this point in time!!!
  • They think I will get a transplant, before a year
  • They use BIG words
  • After the transplant I won’t be able to go back to school for a few months because of COVID-19 and being extra sensitive to everything. I’m excited for homeschool and not talking to people in person!
  • I don’t have a super restricted diet after and can still eat my favorite food
  • I can still go camping with Family
  • My cat can join us for online classes and that makes me feel better!

Potato Potato update!!!!!! It took a bath this week, saw It’s family AND It Loves Us with all its Kidney!!

~Amelia

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July 16, 2020
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The one about the workups, Day 1

Well the time is here. This is our first set of appointments towards getting Amelia on the transplant list again. Today we will meet the team (again. Not like we haven’t known them for 13 years now) and they will educate us on the transplant process. This is a requirement for her to be considered for the transplant list. I will be adding to this post as we have the appointments. Luckily, they are all teledoc appointments over the internet and we can stay home for them. More to come on these as we go!

12:00 pm Ok, we have finished the first hour and a half of our clinic appointment. There was a lost of information about transplant and the basics. I can remember doing this the first time, but Amelia doesn’t remember this so it is new and overwhelming for her. This has been a good refresher for me, some things I didn’t remember. I just have to say, Wow. I can’t believe that this is here again. Now we are on with the dietitian. More updates to come!

1:00 PM a lot of information from the dietitian, most of which we have been doing pretty well with over the years. a couple of new recommendations, and some things that we needed a refresher on. Going onto the doctor now!

2:45 PM ok just got finished with a TON of information from the doctor. That was a huge bit and Amelia is very intimidated by it. Some interesting things with COVID, they don’t have much data for the effects on transplant, but we have to be very careful with Amelia. If she has a positive test or contact with people that can be suspected of having COVID, she may not be able to have a transplant. They will not accept a donor that has had COVID. In light of this, our family quarantine just got a bit tighter, down to changing clothes after shopping or going to work. We just can’t take chances with this stuff and having that affect Amelia. Looks like we will be seeing most people over the internet! Our next appointment is at 4 with the transplant surgeon. More with that then!

4:15 PM Well that was a quick visit with the suregeons. We talked with the Physician’s Assistant because the main surgeon was in surgery! We will meet him later for sure. Amelia got a bit of information about what to expect for the surgery.

All of this is a bit much for Amelia to process and it is going to take her a bit to get all of it figured out. She is writing a post right now about it, that should be fun.

Tomorrow we will be up at Primary Childrens most of the day for more evaluation. Hopefully, there will not be anything that will bar her from the transplant list, we don’t expect there to be.

Coming to you live 29 days into this new kidney journey,

-Justin

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July 15, 2020
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