Amelia's Kidney Journey

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Time marches on and improvements are made!

Well folks, Saturday was a busy one for all of us. We started out going to Tristan’s Pinewood Derby with the Cub Scouts! He was so excited about it. I was grateful that I could carve out the time to make his car with him and get it ready to race. It took a bit over the week, but we got it done and we raced!

It was fun for Leatha, Cameron and Grandma Kelly as well. One blessing we have got from the COVID stuff over the year is the ease of technology. Leatha was able to get on Skype from the Pinewood Derby, to Brenda and Amelia up at the hospital. They got to talk to all of us, and see Tristans car race as well as a bunch of the other silly cars there. It was great that they could be there and share the experience while still being in the hospital.

Amelia did pretty good yesterday at the start. They continue to watch her blood pressures and labs and try to keep them in the proper ranges. It is a bit of a challenge, the new kidney has it’s own ideas apparently. She is up and down on some things and it may be a few weeks before it is all completely figured out.

She did get out of the room for a while and go for a ride over to the clinic side, which was closed. She still has to avoid a lot of people because she is much more immunocompromised than she was before.

It is nice to be able to go over there because it is all closed on the weekends. She took another trip on Saturday night over there and we only saw 2 other people…one of them being her doctor! That is where the nephrologists offices are.

Amelia has had a good time talking to the kids over Skype and the phone, and arguing over cats with Leatha. Some of the things related to the transplant, and the surgery itself are hitting her hard, and she is a bit overwhelmed at times with all of the doctors, tubes, and people congratulating her for her kidney. She is usually a very private kid and would rather have all of this attention just go away for a while. But we will get through it, She will get through it.

Amelia is one of the strongest people I have ever met. She spent yesterday with her pain growing but not wanting to bother the nurses too much. She hides a lot from the outside world so they don’t worry so much about her. She has had friends in school that didn’t ever know she had her first transplant. She is a trooper and just wants to be normal.

She was in fairly good spirits earlier last night, even to the point of arguing over the cats with Leatha. It was a funny conversation over pretty much a non-issue.

Later Saturday was a bit more exciting. He blood pressure decided to crash a bit and she felt terrible. They figured that, even though she drank a bunch yesterday, her new kidney was pumping it off too fast and making her somewhat dehydrated. She needed fluid via IV. That helped her blood pressure and heart rate. Her labs this morning showed more ups and downs, so she has some diet adjustments to try and get more magnesium and potassium.

Right now, she is finally down to one IV tube. She has had quite a few over the past few days. Down to one now. ONE! She was able to get up and actually get dressed in more than a hospital gown for the first time since Tuesday.

She is looking forward to going home for sure. What is needed for that? I’m glad you asked. The answer is, it depends. It depends on her blood pressure being stable, her being able to go the bathroom consistently on her own, and some of her other labs. She gets to have labs twice a week for the next month, as well as twice weekly clinic visits. They keep really good track of new transplant patients. We did the same thing12 years ago with her first transplant, but she doesn’t remember any of that. We are hoping that she will be able to go home tomorrow, but it could easily be Tuesday, it all depends on wht her body decides to do. Hopefully all will go well tonight and into tomorrow morning.

Thanks again to you all, there will be more to come as we know it.

Still coming to you live, 5 days into the new kidney,

-Justin

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April 18, 2021
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A New Amelia Emerges!

Hello yet again folks. It is now Friday and Amelia is doing really well. She has been up in the bed as well as up and walking. She is getting restless just sitting around. Last night, she got to go for a ride in the wheelchair! She went over the bridge and to the clinic building to look out over the valley with all of the rain and snow.

She was glad to get out of the room for a few minutes. We talked with the doctors this morning, and they are pleased with her progress. Her new kidney is working well and functioning like they hoped it would. We are very excited for her.

What now? Well this weekend we are in the hospital. She will continue to work on keeping her pain under control, drinking a lot, and keeping her blood pressure down. They are really looking to get her out of here the first part of next week, quite possibly Monday.

This is such a great blessing for Amelia and our family. We continue to be grateful to all of you out there who are praying for us and thinking of us. It all really helps, it really does.

Thanks again

More to come as we know know it, live 3 days into the new kidney,

-Justin

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April 16, 2021
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Corners are being turned

Helo again! ?Well it is now Thursday and Amelia is making great strides. Yesterday was a big day for her. She steadily decreased her IV medications and by the end of the day she only had her pain medicine and IV fluids. She was feeling like moving a bit and sat up in the bed, but decided that wasn’t enough and stood up for a couple of minutes.

Time passed and she decided that sitting up wasn’t a bad thing and spent over an hour in the chair watching TV. That wore her out, but was very good. She even decided to go for a walk down the hall last night.

They have been working on her blood pressure too. She was really high, then the meds kicked in, then she got low (normal for most of us) and then has crept up again. They are struggling to find the right balance of medication to get her blood pressures in the normal (for her) range.

With all of the IV’s being stopped, they are switching her to oral pain meds this morning as well. That will make it easier for her overall. It will also be better for her pain control and will allow her to get out of the ICU. They are planning on her leaving the ICU and going to the floor this afternoon.

She is doing really well, she looks better and is feeling a bit more like herself. Her labs are going in the right direction and her 2 main kidney labs are now lower than they have been for a couple of years. That is really good.

That is what we know for now. When is she going to go home? NOt sure at this point, it will depend on her blood pressure and other labs. Personally, I don’t see it happening before Monday at the earliest, but stranger things have happened, and it could be over weekend, or into the latter parts of next week. It would take a crystal ball, the position of the stars, and possibly a sacrifice to know for sure at this point. Since I am not prepared to do any of that, we will see.

**In the midst of witing this post, we actually moved out of the ICU!. She is on the transplant floor and currently getting a shower. Things are going well.

Still coming to you live, 2 days into the new kidney,

-Justin

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April 15, 2021
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The morning after…the kidney begins

Well folks it is now Wednesday the 14th! Happy Birthday to Brenda!

0910 Amelia did ok overnight with all of her 97 tubes and the pain of the surgery. She slept a bit here and there but is still tired this morning. She is hurting quite a bit, but they have her on some good pain medicines and are taking care of her well.

With her labs early this morning it is interesting. The few that have been going up an up with her kidney failing, are actually going down today. Her new kidney seems to be working already and that is fantastic!

We are sitting here now still in the ICU waiting for the doctors to come and tell us how much longer she will be here and when she can go up to the floor.

0920- well the nephrologist is here now with the pharmacist….

well, she is on the right path. They are going to work on getting her IV meds stable and consistent and get off of some of her blood pressure meds, and on to other ones. That is what is keeping her in the ICU for now. She has been drinking water all night so that is good. She will be able to eat in a little while and then start to get up and move around. They have to get the pain under control and help control her nausea.

It is coming, but slow. The surgeons and more doctors will be here in a little bit to discuss further. More to come as we know it.

Coming to you tired but live, 1 day into the new kidney,

-Justin

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April 14, 2021
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Greetings from the ICU

Hello again. We are now in the ICU with Amelia. She is very groggy and sleeping with all of her pain meds. She is however doing really good. Her kidney is working and things are getting into the correct ranges. Her blood pressure is a concern, but they are keeping that where it needs to be with medications.

We have seen almost everyone on the transplant team that we have been working with in kidney clinic for years, and they are all excited that Amelia got a transplant. The dietician and the pharmacist are keeping really good tabs on her as are the doctors. They all seem to have a bond with Amelia because we have been seeing them for the past 14 years!

We will be here for the night and we will see what happens tomorrow as far as leaving the ICU. She will be in the hospital for a while, but not in the ICU for all of it.

I continually am impressed by the nurses and doctors up here. The have a genuine concern to heal these kids and to take care of them. It is nice to know that Amelia is in such good hands.

More to come as it comes to us,

Coming to you live, a few hours more into the new Kidney,

-Justin

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April 13, 2021
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Let the new kidney reign!

Well folks, as I sit here, 3 1/2 hours have passed and we just talked to the surgeon. He said Amelia is out of surgery and doing well. He said that she got a really good kidney that woke right up and started making urine so he thinks it will do really well for her. We have to wait for her to get out of recovery and get set in the ICU before we can see her. They say about an hour, or 45 minutes as of this writing. The surgeon thinks she may be out of the ICU tomorrow and home in a week.

This is such a relief for her to be out of surgery and doing well. It is also great to be looking forward to her getting better and being our normal Amelia again.

Thanks again to everyone for their thoughts and prayers, I know they helped.

More to come as we know it,

Newly into the New Kidney,

-JUstin

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April 13, 2021
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Holy Kidney’s!

Hello folks. Well after 300 days on this new journey, the time has finally come. Amelia has a new kidney.

That’s right, a kidney was found, and as of this writing it is being put in Amelia.

Here’s what I know so far: We got a call last night that a kidney was available that didn’t have any matching problems and was a really close match to Amelia. They were doing the final blood tests and stuff last night and then they called and said it was a go. we ended up coming to Primary’s late so that they could get Amelia’s covid test and some other labs done and keep her NPO for the surgery.

Everything was on track for this morning and they wheeled her down for the surgery at 1030, and she went into the operating room at 11:10. As of now, we are still waiting and hoping.

For the big questions: No, we do not know the donor, or anything about the donor. We most likely will not. That is ok. All we know is that the donor was a darn good match for Amelia, and we are very thankful for the selfless act of donation.

Next, Amelia will be keeping her old kidney as well as this new transplant. Amelia will have 2 kidneys for the first time in 14 years. Her first kidney was on the right side, near the front of her body. The new kidney will be in the left side and near her back more.

We don’t know for sure how long we will be in the hospital, but the basic idea is this: Surgery is 3-4 hours. Amelia will then go to the ICU for 24 to 48 hours so that they can monitor her for blood pressure and make sure she is recovering from the anesthesia ok. After the ICU, she will be up on the transplant unit on isolation. She will be there for 3-4 days, all depending on how she is recovering. We are looking at 7-10 days overall for this stay.

This is all so much to process, but such a wonderful thing. Amelia got emotional as she was going back to the OR as she finally got all of this stuff at once. This is such a blessing for Amelia and the rest of us. She will be feeling somuch better, and willbe able to go and do things without getting so worn out. We are very grateful to the donor, as well as allof you who are reading this; your prayers and good thoughts have carried us through the past few months that has led us up to this point. Thank you all.

Still coming to you live 299 days into the new kidney journey, and 0 days into the new kidney,

-Justin

*****More will be coming this afternoon******

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April 13, 2021
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In with April…

Well, April has arrived and time marches on, as does the wait for the kidney. Amelia has been hanging in pretty well with all of these challenges she is having. At least she is not in pain like she has been in the past. I don’t like seeing her like this, when her normal is “ehhhh”. I keep telling her to change her scale and make that “ehhhh” into “fine” so we know when she is going down. She is still trying to do things normally, but she is struggling.

We went to a couple of Easter egg hunts this year. The first one Amelia made it all the way across the soccer complex to her area and got a few eggs in the chaos. We then went to Riverton where they had an interesting way to do Easter. Around the whole park they had stations where the kids could do activities and get eggs and a punch on a card. They went around the park, got all of the punches, and got entered into a drawing for 1000 eggs. I gvuess we didn’t win, but they had fun. Amelia rode the whole way around the park in her wheelchair and did as many of the activities that she could. Cameron was great pushing her around and doing a bunch of the activites while he was pushing her in the chair.

After that we went fishing. She didn’t do a whole lot, but she had a good time getting outside and seeing some actual sunlight. She still got worn out. She did have another session at kidney clinic this week. She is just hanging in there for now. She is not ready for dialysis as of now, so that is good news. We also found out that she will be able to avoid having to get a fistula if dialysis is needed. That helps her get ready for dialysis. We just hope that we can get her a kidney before she needs to go on dialysis.

On that note, I am finally getting the next round of tests done to see about donating a kidney for Amelia. It has been a very slow process for sure, but I am hoping that it will speed up at this point. We will see what the tests hold after tomorrow.

Thanks for sticking with us and continuing to keep up with Amelia.

Still coming to you live, 294 days into this new kidney journey,

-Justin

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April 8, 2021
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Marchh is longg…

So far this month has been oh so very long. I haven’t been feeling as well. I have been taking more downtime and falling asleep later than I have before. I’ve been incredibly nauseated for one reason or another, and I’ve been getting headaches nearly on a daily basis. It’s getting to a point that I don’t want to do anything much lately besides reading and just sitting around. But its perfectly fine, the cats are happy.

We’ve had 2 different Kidney Clinic Appointments in March.(Because of increased crumminess I now need to go to a Kidney clinic appointment every two-ish weeks, which is as fun as it sounds) Each of them turned out alright, nothing bad but still not great. I had an Echo scan this week. That’s where they did an ultrasound on my heart to make sure it’s still working with all my high blood pressures. (I’m also going to be doing a 24 hour blood pressure monitor because of that.) The only thing they saw was my left heart vessel is leaking a tiny bit with how high my blood pressure was, but it should fix it’s self soon with the extra medication.

The appointment I had on Tuesday was okay. During, said appointment, we were informed that my kidney function is cut down by half from six months ago. But I don’t need Dialysis yet! It is steadily going down and not just dropping; which is really good! They are going to be doing an ultrasound of my neck veins to make sure they’ll work for my chosen Dialysis catheter; because during my first Dialysis when I was young, they used the same veins many, many times. I’m still not doing great eating (because of the nausea) So they want me to try and eat more. My Nutritionist also said to cut down on my sodium based off of one comment. Even though I’m not eating that much to begin with. -_- . But I’m still trying to do as much as I can. Its still not super good.

I’ve been doing really good in school, it been super easy. I’m all the way caught up and slightly ahead. Next week is Spring Break and also the end of 3rd quarter, so its super good. I’m acing most of my classes! I’ve been in a mood lately where I feel like I need to do homework but I have nothing to do! It’s silly but apparently I take after my sister, in yet another thing…

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March 25, 2021
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Beware the Ides of March

Oh how time flies when there is chaos abounding! It has been a while since our last update. Amelia has been hanging in there but she has not been feeling great. She is nauseated most of the time and just feels crummy. Since our last posts, she has decided that food tastes bland, cats are about better than anything else, and he blood pressure is an arbitrary number that she doesn’t like very much.

We had a kidney clinic 2 weeks ago where things seemed to be going ok. Her labs were in a decent range and she wasn’t swollen up so they decided that she didn’t need dialysis yet. They also changed her blood pressure medicine to better regulate her pressures because they were getting high. That new medicine gave her grief and terrible headaches for about a week. She started taking her blood pressures more often and they were all high, like really high, and she was on 3 different medications to lower them. That earned her another kidney clinic today and an EKG to check her heart.

The good news is her heart seems to be ok, but her kidney is not. The doctor is estimating that her kidney function is about 12% now; down from about 20 or so back 6 months ago. That is most likely why she is feeling crummy and just not feeling great at all. She is starting another 24 hour blood pressure monitor test tonight or tomorrow to see how her average is. I think that this is her 3rd one. I just did mine for the donation people, and it wasn’t much fun. We went fishing for part of the day and it was not always easy to fish when I had to stop every 20 minutes to have a blood pressure taken. Brenda and Amelia had a ton of laughs watching me just stop and stay still, right after I cast out into the river. I didn’t even try to fly fish, I don’t think that would have worked very well at all.

Amelia has been really tired lately, even going for drives where she sits in the car wears her out. We got her a new wheelchair so that we can still go places and she can do things with us without wearing her out so bad. It is hard to watch her get down so far. i don’t like seeing her getting so sick again, but she endures it well. She is still one of the strongest people that I know. She has endured so much in 14 1/2 years, and she is not done yet.

They started talking to her more about dialysis and the fact that she will need it to at least feel better in the near future. I guess it will be me and Amelia, dialysis buddies again. That last dialysis was almost 12 years ago now…

On Thursday, we will be up at Primary’s again so that they can do an ultrasound on the veins in her neck to see if they can place a dialysis catheter near there again. Amelia would rather have the temporary catheter than the fistula in her arm, and we let her choose. I hope that she can do the catheter, it will be easier on her and not permanent.

I am still in the long, drawn out, painstakingly slow process of getting worked up to donate her a kidney. I have passed the first two steps, and the actual blood tests and things are pending in the near future, like later this week or early next week. I am hopeful that we can get all of this through and done, and I can match her enough to keep her off of dialysis and get her feeling better. We will just have to see how that goes.

Well, we just keep on keeping on at this point. We will be updating more often on here because more things are starting to happen. Thanks for continuing to read about Amelia and sending her all of the prayers and good thoughts, it does help.

Still coming to you live, 279 days into the new kidney journey,

-Justin

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March 23, 2021
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